Empowering gay men

to heal from sexual shame.

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Welcome to SafeHaus Wellness Services by Kevin Martin, MS, CHC, CPT, a sanctuary where gay men come to heal, embrace their authentic selves, and reclaim their personal power.

Here, we believe that everyone deserves a safe space to explore their deepest emotions, confront past traumas, and build a life filled with self-acceptance, confidence, and love.

About SafeHaus

Our Mission

At SafeHaus, we are committed to supporting gay men in their journey of self-discovery and self-empowerment. We provide a nurturing environment that fosters emotional healing, growth, and transformation, where you can feel truly seen, heard, and valued. Whether you're dealing with the weight of sexual shame, navigating complex emotions, or seeking connection within a like-minded community, we're here to guide you through every step of your journey.

Our approach combines personalized coaching, emotional support, and a supportive community to ensure that you can heal and thrive. At SafeHaus, we don’t just focus on fixing problems—we focus on empowering you to take control of your life, your identity, and your sexuality with confidence and clarity.

What We Offer

  • Whether virtual or in-person, our individual coaching sessions with Kevin Martin, MS, CHC, CPT are designed to give you the personalized attention and support you need to navigate your unique challenges.

    We work with you to address deep-rooted issues such as sexual shame, self-doubt, and relationship struggles, helping you uncover the courage to embrace who you truly are.

    Each individual session is $150 for 60 minutes. Partnered sessions are $175 for 60 minutes.

  • As part of our online community via Discord, you will have the opportunity to connect with other like-minded men who are on their own journeys of healing and self-discovery. This is a safe, non-judgmental space where you can share, learn, and grow alongside others who truly understand your experiences.

  • We offer weekly meditation sessions and emotional support check-ins to help you stay grounded, focused, and connected to your emotional well-being. These free sessions are designed to support you in managing stress, anxiety, and emotions, ensuring you feel empowered and resilient as you move through your healing process.

Our Values

At SafeHaus, we uphold a set of core values that guide everything we do:

  • Acceptance: You are welcome here exactly as you are. No matter your past, your struggles, or your challenges, you deserve a space where you can heal and grow.

  • Empowerment: We believe in helping you reclaim your personal power — emotionally, sexually, and socially. It’s not just about surviving; it’s about thriving.

  • Kindness: Every step of the journey is met with compassion. We treat you with respect, empathy, and understanding, providing a space where you can truly feel safe.

  • Community: Healing happens best in connection. At SafeHaus, you’ll find a network of support from others who share similar experiences and are committed to growth and transformation.

Why SafeHaus?

With SafeHaus, you’re stepping into a space of healing, love, and understanding. We know the path to self-empowerment is not always easy, but you don’t have to walk it alone. Our mission is to help you find clarity, peace, and strength through connection, coaching, and community.

You have the power to create the life you’ve always wanted — a life where you feel confident, whole, and unashamed of who you are. Whether you’re looking to heal from sexual shame, improve your mental health, or simply connect with others who understand your journey, we’re here to walk beside you every step of the way.

Get Started

For 1-1 coaching with Kevin, schedule a free 15 minute initial consultation to discuss your goals for sexual empowerment coaching.

To join our Discord community to connect with fellow gay men for sexual empowerment support, email Kevin (18+ adults only).

To register for our free weekly support groups, sign-up for the Monday Morning Meditation and/or the Thursday Check-in.

Your journey starts here — you are safe, you are enough, and you are not alone.

About Kevin

Hey, I’m Kevin Martin (he/him).

I’m a Gay Sex Coach, and I help gay men work through sexual shame by releasing shameful messages and patterns, exploring positive self-talk, and learning new skills to support their sexual confidence.

I used to be full of sexual shame. I hated myself for being gay, and as a result, I punished myself by entering into unsafe sexual situations and staying in unhealthy intimate relationships. Once I discovered my worth and my value, I learned tools to help me let go of that sexual shame in replacement of radical sexual empowerment.

And as a result, I started my coaching practice, SafeHaus Wellness Services, to ensure gay men have a safe, supportive, empowering home for their sexual health, growth, and development, taking all I’ve learned from my personal and professional experiences to help gay men transform their lives.

Over the past 10 years, I’ve helped more than 1,000 gay men recalibrate their relationships with themselves by letting go of sexual shame and embracing sexual empowerment.

I have my Masters of Science in Psychology and am a Certified Health Coach, Certified Behavior Change Specialist, and Certified Personal Trainer. I utilize all of these backgrounds (plus my clinical mental health professional experience) to ensure gay men are receiving the loving, caring, tender support they need.

What Clients Are Saying

“Kevin’s innate gentle nature combines with passion and dedication in a powerful and magical way for those wishing to learn to experience greater peace, love, and self-acceptance to live more fulfilled and happier lives.”

— Client Review

“Kevin leads first and foremost with empathy, modeling how we can approach ourselves and partners with kindness and grace. I can’t overstate how much he opened my eyes, mind, and heart to the power of radical self-acceptance which improved how I approach trauma.”

— Client Review

“I’ve had several sessions with Kevin and have found him to be one the most compassionate and empathetic listeners I’ve met. Kevin truly takes pride in his work and listens to understand while also asking thought-provoking questions without judgement.”

— Client Review

“You have honestly saved my life. I've always struggled with who I am. When we started, I had hardly any confidence in myself. I didn't think I was worth anything, and your mentorship has truly changed me. You've taught me that I'm not a mistake.”

— Client Review

Additional Resources

  • Enjoy the Ride — A space for gay men to overcome shame about their identity and fully embrace who they are with confidence and pride.

    Gay Sex Coaching — A space for gay men to overcome shame about their sexual behavior to reclaim sexual confidence and embrace their desires without guilt or fear.

  • Listen to The SafeHaus Podcast anywhere podcasts are found!

  • Tamara Driskell, LMHC — one of the most fiery humans I know (and my personal coach).

    Dr. Michael Simmons — incredible shadow work coach

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